I have a tendency to change song lyrics. I don't mean to do it at first, but once I start, I end up modifying the whole song, giving it new lyrics which match a theme. Years ago, when Beyonce released "All the Single Ladies" somehow my brain though, "this would be an excellent song about PUPPIES!"
Without further ado, I give you All the Single Puppies, a parody of All the Single Ladies.
All the single puppies, (all the single puppies)
All the single puppies, (all the single puppies)
All the single puppies, (all the single puppies)
All the single puppies,
Now put your paws up!
Up in the park, running 'round, doing my own puppy thing,
Decided to sniff, now you wanna flip, cause another puppy noticed me.
He's licking me, I'm licking him, don't pay it any attention,
Just ate some snacks, yum, yum snacks,
Don't you bark at me.
Cause if you liked me, then you should've given a treat to me,
If you liked me, then should've given a treat to me,
Don't be mad when you see that puppy likes me,
If you liked me, then should've given a treat to me.
I got a collar on my neck, a nice shiny tag,
and I'm rocking a matching leash,
I need no permission, did I mention,
Don't pay him any attention,
Cause you had you turn,
And now your gonna learn
What it really feels like to miss me. (Bow wow)
Cause if you liked me, then you should've given a treat to me,
If you liked me, then should've given a treat to me,
Don't be mad when you see that puppy likes me,
If you liked me, then should've given a treat to me.
All the single puppies, (all the single puppies)
All the single puppies, (all the single puppies)
All the single puppies, (all the single puppies)
All the single puppies,
Now put your paws up.
As you may have surmised, I have a lot to say about a lot of things. In my opinion, most of the things I have to say are both interesting and comical. This makes me the PERFECT candidate to host a talk show.
MANY, MANY, MANY, many, many, many, MANY, MANY talk shows fail due to low viewership. Why doesn't anyone watch? Because they aren't interesting. Sure, they may be good for the first few days, maybe even weeks, but after a while the host runs out of things to talk about. For me, this isn't the case.
Talk shows aren't just about one person talking to the camera the entire time. No, talk shows require multiple people talking. Who else would be on the talk show? Ms. Diver.
Together, we would make a FANTASTIC talk show.
What proof do I have of this, you ask? Well, the other day as we were lunching, that's right, lunch is not only a noun, but also a verb. I love that fact because I love to lunch. "Shall we lunch?" is one of my favorite things to ask. It is best asked with a British accent such like that of Dame Maggie Smith portraying Dowager Countess Grantham on Downton Abbey. Oh, don't even get me started on how much I ADORE Downton Abbey. LOVE IT! Dame Maggie Smith as Dowager Countess Grantham and her one liners that deliver wisdom with a ZING! Too good.
I mean, just read that quote. "Vulgatiy is no substitute for wit." That is so true. Rappers and singers can put all the cuss words they want in a song and that doesn't make me think, "Wow, how original and inspiring." But when they make a clever play on words or one that you makes you think, that's a good song.
A great example of this is Childish Gambino and their song, Freaks and Geeks. I'm not going to link to it due to its explicit nature which is a shame. I really wish they didn't drop so many f-bombs and n-words because it takes focus away from their absolutely brilliant lyrics. I was floored with their line "took the G out from your waffle, all you got left is your ego." How brilliant is that? Seriously, that is awesome. So much so, I need to break this down to truly appreciate this word play. "Took the G out from your waffle" - alright, so waffle means running your mouth without really saying anything, just babbling on and everyone knows what being a G is. (Mom, it stands for gangsta or gangster, think Al Capone.) But the BEST part of this is the play on the brand, Eggo Waffles. If you remove a 'g' from Eggo, you're left with the word 'ego'.
I mean, really, it doesn't get much better than that.
BUT back to the point, Ms. Diver, Ms. Hamilton, and I were lunching the other day. Ms. Diver looks at me and says, "I'm going to try this. I'm just going to throw this out there and you join when you can."
With that, she begins to sing, "Come and - "
Two words. Two words was all I needed to know where this was going. And so I joined in as we sang the chorus of the following:
Ms. Hamilton perplexed by our singing asked, "Is this a thing that you two do? Have you both done this before?"
Ms Diver responded, "No, but I had a feeling though it would work."
In addition to the chorus of the fantastic Gullah Gullah Island Theme Song, I continued singing the verse, "Just put your foot in your hand, that means hurry up, don't miss the good things that we've planned." Apparently, I was the only one of the three of us that remembered that portion of the song. But that was okay as I was then joined by Ms. Diver as we completed the melody with, "so come and let's play together in the bright, sunny weather, let's all go to Gullah, Gullah Island, Gullah, Gullah Island, Gullah Gullah Island."
In case you were wondering, Gullah Gullah Island was a show on Nick Jr. when Ms. Diver, Ms. Hamilton, and I were kids. I also just learned it was the first show designed for children that featured a black family, which is awesome. I think the most interesting thing about that fact is that as a child, I never thought "Oh wow! A black family!" Instead, when once I learned to read and saw that they all had the same last name, I thought, "They're a family in real life? A real family who sings on a TV show? Can my whole family be on a singing TV show?" But no, to this date, my family had not been on a singing TV show. Sad.
So why am I telling you about this? Well after the grand finale of our impromptu duet, Ms. Diver mentioned, "you should write about us on your blog." And although that may have been said in jest, I followed through.
I think Ms. Diver and I would have a wonderful talk show. Ms. Hamilton, whom (it is whom, right? Because you know HER and when it's him/her, you use whom and if it's she/he, you use who. Back me up on this or correct me because I'm not sure.) most of you know as the JV field hockey and lacrosse coach would be fantastic on the show. She would be the person who would just shake her head at Ms. Diver's and my antics. To be fair, they are pretty incredible antics.
Our show might not be syndicated world-wide, country-wide, or even state-wide. However, I think it would be a great thing. Perhaps, I should start an online petition or kickstarter to call for the need for us to host a talk show.
And how do I know we'd never run out of things to talk about? Because Ms. Diver does incredible things like going to see Cher, having Semis perform at Carnegie Hall, travel the world. And I do things like go white water rafting, kayaking, hiking, dog related activities, rescue animals in bizarre scenarios, y'know, the usual. Since we do such different things, the discussion topics are endless.
Oh, how I desperately want this to become a thing.
At some point between November and March, I lost my checkbook. This didn't seem like the end of the world as I use approximately 20 checks every 5 years...at most.
However, when a doctor told me she only took cash or check, I was dumbfounded. Who doesn't accept credit card? Regardless, I was out of luck. I don't carry around cash or checks. I am a the definition mugger's least favorite person. If someone mugged me, they wouldn't get a single valuable thing from my wallet.
Just to prove my point, here are the items in my wallet:
My Driver's License
1 Credit Card, 1 Debit Card
My Health Insurance Card
1 penny that is stuck in the corner of the zippered pouch
Expired Coupons
Loyalty Member Cards - Panera, Rite Aid, Safeway, Lakeshore Learning Center
Gift Cards with less than $5 on them
My Red Cross Blood Donations Card
A receipt
Yep...that's it. By mugging me, the mugger would get exactly $0.01 IF they took the time to get the penny out. Combine that with the fact that when threatened, I tend to kick, and I have a mean round-house. (Thank you years of karate.) Mugging me isn't a very lucrative or wise plan.
Since I rarely carry cash, I knew I needed to order checks from the bank to pay for the doctor. Plus, I figured it's always good to at least have access to a check book.
To get checks, I needed to go to the bank. Easy enough, I drove to the bank, and entered.
Teller: Hello, how may I help you.
Me: Hi, I would like to order checks.
Teller: How many would you like?
Me: I don't know. Maybe 50 checks?
Teller: And how will you be paying for them?
Me: (Sarcastically) Can I write you a check?
Teller: No, the check company only takes cash or credit card.
Me: Ha - oh, you're not kidding. You're telling me the company that makes CHECKS doesn't accept CHECKS?
Teller: No, they take too long to process.
Me: I feel as though that may be foretelling of the future of checks.
Teller: -silence- Credit card or cash?
Me: Credit card.
Teller: You will receive your checks in the mail in 2 - 4 weeks.
Ok, cut to 3 weeks later. The mail arrives and I open a small package. Inside are my checks, finally. However, it seemed like they sent me more than 50 checks. No, this was much more than 50 checks. They sent me 10 checkbooks and EACH one had 50 CHECKS. I was now the proud owner of 500 checks.
500 checks?! What in the world am I going to do with that many checks? At the rate I'm going, those checks will last me until I'm 150 years old. (This is correct, I did the math. Every 5 years I will use 20 checks, so 20/5 = 4 checks per year, 500 checks / 4 checks per year = 125 years worth of checks. 25 years old + 125 years worth of checks = 150 years old. MATH IS WONDERFUL.)
I called the bank to clarify my new possession of 1 and a half lifetime supplies of checks. They informed me something went wrong with my order, so they just sent me the STANDARD NUMBER OF CHECKS that they send to people AND they expect I would need to reorder in 5 years. Which leads me to my next question, WHO IS USING 100 CHECKS PER YEAR in this day and age?
500 checks is only supposed to last me 5 years? 20 checks lasts me 5 years. That gives me a 480 check surplus. I am at a loss. Part of me wants to write VOID on those 480 checks and then make 480 tiny paper airplanes.
The main problem with that plan is I only know the first three steps of making paper airplanes. I first learned these steps when I was in second grade. It was after school, but for some reason some of us second-graders sat in the cafeteria watching as a teacher taught us the steps to making paper airplanes. I am positive this teacher immediately regretted her decision as once some of the students learned to make these airplanes, any scrap of paper was commandeered to be artfully folded into something resembling an airplane. Afterwards, these airplanes flew threw the school causing quite a ruckus.
To show us how to make a paper airplane, we were to follow along with the teacher. First, she took two corners of the paper and folded them to the middle of the page. Easy peasy.
Step two, she folded the paper in half. Got it. Step three: she folded down the beginning of the wings. Step four -
I don't know step four because after step three, my paper slightly resembled an airplane and I thought, "I HAVE AN AIRPLANE! THIS IS THE COOLEST DAY EVER!" With that thought racing through my mind, I jumped out of my seat to send my airplane soaring through the sky.
I ran, holding my airplane up, then released it. My airplane promptly nose dived towards the floor. But, at 7 years old, that was good enough for me.
Now that I'm thinking about it, perhaps checks should be shredded considering they do include your bank account number, routing number, address - y'know, all that stuff that would be on a hacker's Christmas/Chanukah/Eid list.
However, there was one crucial member I left out of the mouse brigade, GusGus.
GusGus is shorter than the other two mice, he is also a bit chubs. Ok, he is very chubs. GusGus LOVES to eat. I don't blame him. He is a mouse. What else is there to do in the life of a mouse? You can only run through so many mazes before it becomes a bit redundant. What else are you going to do? EAT.
One evening after returning home from work, I turned on the kitchen light to reveal GusGus chomping away at a large crumb. The moment he became aware of my presence, he dropped his crumb and worked his way to the mouse hole.
Normally, the mice bolt towards an exit. It happens so quickly that at times, I can barely register what is happening before the mouse is out of sight.
With GusGus, I had PLENTY OF TIME to register. GusGus' little belly dragged against the floor. He shuffled along, putting forth an enormous amount of effort, desperate to make his escape.
Imagine you are watching a race. The starting gun sounds as a herd of racers take off, dashing down the track. You look back to see one kid left behind. He is giving his best, but has managed to only traverse mere feet away from the starting line. He isn't running as much as he is shuffling. All you can do is hope he somehow finishes. While all of this passes through your mind, the others races complete the run.
Now, EVERYONE is watching the one kid. Talk about an anxiety attack. At first, everyone cheers him on, but the encouragement proves fruitless as he speed remains that of a turtle. The cheering stops. Now it's plain old AWKWARD. You look away, stare at the sky, anything that will help distract from this painful scene.
You look back, positive that he is almost finished the race. NOPE! So again, you look away, attempt to make small talk with the people around you. Finally, the kid closes in on the finish line. Again the cries of cheers fill the stands as people celebrate this kid's determination, but mostly are cheering that the awkwardness is over.
GusGus is that kid. GusGus worked so hard towards escaping that even Lila found little appeal in hunting him and instead, she stopped, stood next to me, and together we watched him escape.
That''s right, even Lila thinks chasing GusGus is a joke. It wouldn't be a chase so much as a walk over and stand next to him while he wobbles slowly on the floor.
My friend, Tana also lives in the apartments. She doesn't have a single mouse. Why? Because she has TWO cats.
I need to borrow these cats, but I am not sure for how long. I'm guessing the mice would quickly learn of our feline residents, but what would happen when the cats leave?
I'm sure the mice would eventually venture out again, risking their tiny critter lives. I assume once the smell of cat wore off they would return. SO, what if I took some cat hair and placed strategically in corners frequented by my mice? I think that is a brilliant idea.
Although, I have to obtain cat hair. I am not sure how to go about this process. Cats are not usually the biggest snugglers. It is also VERY DIFFICULT to reason with a cat. At least when it comes to Lila, I can say, "Lila" in a very serious tone with my attempt at a deep voice, and she immediately rolls over.
If I say a cat's name in a serious tone, the cat completely ignores me. Cats are so sassy. I can see it playing out like this:
Once I unsuccessfully attempt to reason with the cat into giving me it's cat hair, I will rely on catching the cat. I can already imagine my endless hours of me chasing a slinky, maneuverable cat around the house. Cats possess the ability to leap from refrigerators, dart into tiny spaces, and jump onto counters, knocking over anything and EVERYTHING in their path.
That is rude, cats. You knock over things, break things, and don't even bat an eye lash. A cat will knock over a vase, watch it shatter into a million pieces, then look at you with it's cat-ferocity as if saying, "What." Not, "What?' No, that would imply the cat was confused by their actions. No, cats know exactly what they did and they don't care. They are the honey badgers of the domesticated animal world.
Meanwhile, I chase the cat and given my determination to catch the cat, as by that point I'd challenge myself to catch the cat, I plow through any object in my way. As a former soccer goalie, diving onto the sofa or even the floor in a vain attempt to grab the cat surely results in a few broken household items along with some injured body part.
But I put injury aside. When it comes to a challenge, as I've said many times before, this is my life -
Although, usually I am the one issuing the challenge to myself.
By this point, exhaustion is sure to set in. I fall to the ground. The cat glares at me. I crawl towards the cat, saying, "it's ok" over and over again. The cat lets me come near enough and I snatch her by the leg. I've made her a girl cat.
She smacks me in the face, claws extended. Her sharp swipe tears through my skin. Blood drips down my face. I release her leg and wince as I wipe my forehead, covering my hand in drops of blood.
The cat retreats to a tiny nook, possibly under a bed, in the dead center where my arms are unable to reach. But of course, I still try, laying down on my belly, shuffling my body, underneath the frame of my bed. At this point, I realize I am stuck. There is nothing left for me to do, but try and grab the cat.
As I extend my fingers towards the hostile scratcher, she hisses, a warning that I need to back off. Too bad I am stuck and unable to back off. I stop trying to grab her and instead we stare at each other. Her, hissing, me, frustrated. My continuous wiggling proves useful as I back out from underneath the bed. Of course, I manage to hit my head as I break free. Poor brain. It deals with so much.
"Fine! You win!" I call out to the cat as I leave the room. I approach the spot where I managed to grab her leg, and lo and behold, there is a tuft of cat fur. CHALLENGE COMPLETED!
I grab it and shout out in victory, completely oblivious of my open wound's determination to bleed. I plop down on the sofa, victorious.
And with my luck AFTER all of this subsides, Joey returns home from wherever he is. Because of course, he isn't there when I am having INCREDIBLE ADVENTURES.
He will look at the dried blood on my face and ask what happened. All I will say is "THE CAT."
Knowing Joey, his response will be along the lines of, "soooo, we still have mice."
"Go ask GusGus" I will respond. "Oh, and don't go in the bedroom, there is a very angry cat under the bed. I'm not sure how to make her leave."
Yes, I can very easily see this playing out - how? Because something VERY similar has happened before. I was left wounded by an angry cat who didn't want to play. She managed to cut open my forehead with her claws. Lovely cat. Therefore, I guess we are stuck with the mice until the exterminator shows.
At the end of November, Joey and I moved to a new apartment and by new, I mean built in the 1950s.
Around the end of December, I noticed little brown droppings. Horrified by my new discovery, I vacuumed every nook and cranny of the apartment.
EVERY NOOK AND CRANNY - I moved bookshelves, our 5 person sofa which weighs 300 pounds, moved our shoe rack, curtains and morphed into a vacuuming fiend. I would find every piece of tiny mouse poop.
Knowing that mice are nocturnal, I went on with life as usual. Until I noticed a new trend emerging from Lila's usual habits. She would go to a dark closet, sit down, and stare at the ground. If a dark closet was unavailable, I found her sitting behind the sofa and staring at the ground.
I started to worry. Was Lila depressed? Bored? I enrolled her in Doggy Daycare, hoping her playtime there would cause her bizarre habits to subside. Yet, she still spent evenings in the closet. I shared my concern with Joey, who assured me Lila didn't show the usual signs of depression. As we talked, Lila sat, alone, in the closet, focused on the carpet. I called her name. She didn't even flinch. Joey called her name. No response.
Finally, I got up and walked over to the closet. I turned on the light to reveal that Lila wasn't depressed; no, Lila was staring down a hole in the corner our of closet floor. A hole that most likely leads to a tiny underground Ratatouille-sized family of mice.
My neighbors have informed me that they too battle the mice. One neighbor in particular is Eileen. If you've ever seen Ratatouille, the old woman Mabel in the movie is my neighbor, Eileen. Eileen is 82 years old and always has her hair in curlers. In addition, Eileen's favorite outfit consists of the following: a pink and white nightgown complimented by heavy industrial boots. According to Eileen, she frequently falls asleep in her recliner with the tv on in the background, then wakes up at bizarre hours, like 2am. I love Eileen.
I am not sure if Eileen owns any weaponry, but it wouldn't be a big surprise if this scene played out in our complex. Although, rather than target the ceiling, Eileen would target the floor.
Last weekend, Eileen had a gentleman caller. However, being elderly and easily confused, the gentleman caller first came to my apartment in search of Eileen. He knocked on my door and stood in bewilderment as I greeted him.
"Did you just move in?" he asked.
"I moved here in November." I replied.
"What happened to the old lady that lived her?" he asked loudly, which indicated he may be hard of hearing.
"I don't know."
"Ok," he responded sadly. He turned away and made his way up the stairs.
I closed the door and it dawned on me.
"Wait!" I swung the door open, hoping to catch the man. Luckily, his age slowed him down and he was only 20 feet away from my door. "You're in the wrong apartment building! She lives in the next building. She's still there!" I continued, excited to be able to help.
"Really?" he said, eyes lighting up.
"Yes."
"Thank you!"
ADORABLE.
ANYWAY, after I discovered the mouse tunnel in our closet, I stuffed the hole with an old t-shirt. Then I put a box on top of the t-shirt. This is obviously not a long term solution, but so far, it's working. I then carried Lila out of the closet. That's right CARRIED. I had to physically pick her up and carry her out of the closet. She is so infatuated with our critters that any time she hears a sound coming from the kitchen or closet, she bolts from the sofa, her usual spot, runs to where she thinks the sound came from and STARES, waiting.
The pathetic part of this is that usually she focuses so hard on the spot where she believes the mice will appear that she completely misses them running behind her.
The most mice we've seen at any one time is three. The first time we saw a mouse, I decided he needed a name. Normally, I choose the name, but this time, I asked Joey for his input.
"What should we name the mouse?" I asked Joey
"Hector," Joey replied without batting an eyelash.
I am so PROUD! Normally, whenever I try to give a name to a random animal, Joey acts perplexed. It used to be that when I told him that I named a random critter, he would respond, "Why would you name it?"
It has taken nine years of being together for Joey to realize when it comes to me, it's usually easier to go with the flow. Rather than question my desire to name every animal that crosses our path, he MIGHT AS WELL give his input on a name.
So Hector it became. Whenever we saw a mouse in the house, (nice rhyme) we would announce Hector's visit. We saw Hector by himself three times. I am very well aware that it could have been a different mouse each time, but I choose to believe it was Hector. LET ME BELIEVE!
This was fine and dandy until last week. Last Wednesday night, I walked into the kitchen and turned on the light. The room illuminated to reveal Hector frozen still, STARING AT ME.
His stiffened stature caused me to freeze as well. This means at 9:00 pm on a Wednesday night, I was caught in a STARING CONTEST WITH A MOUSE. I didn't dare call out for Joey and startle Hector. I wanted to catch and free Hector and his family in a wild meadow filled with flowers, sunshine, and happiness.
"How can I catch him?" I thought to myself. "I know, I LIGHTLY BOP HIM WITH A BROOM. I won't hit him hard enough to do damage, just enough to stun him."
FLAWLESS PLAN - aka dumb plan.
All I needed was to reach for the broom, let me move my arm ever so slightly to the left to grab the broom and I'll -
The moment I tensed my arm, Hector took off into a newly carved hole under our cabinets.
"Oh well," I said out loud.
I took a step further into the kitchen and was cut off by another mouse who ZOOMED past me into the hole.
Ok, I am not one of those girls who screams when she gets scared. I don't scream and pretend to be scared merely to gain attention. Like when you are at the ocean, standing in the sand and a crashing wave makes its way towards you, DON'T SCREAM. That is stupid."OMG THE WAVES ARE COMING! AHHH" Those girls drive me crazy. Either a) let the water touch your toes, you will survive or b) MOVE OUT OF THE WAY.
When I see girls/women doing that, I stare at them with frustration. They are giving women a bad name. We are NOT a weak gender that requires rescuing. We can manage on our own. Sure, we LIKE when someone comes to help us, who doesn't? Yet, women need to stop perpetuating the stereotype that we can't handle life without a strong, rugged man saving the day. I-N-D-E-P-E-N-D-E-N-T, do you know what that means? U
Ok sorry, side tracked. I have MANY more thoughts about that and also my issue with society perpetuating what men and women should look like and act like. If you're a kind and respectful person who is trying to be a good human being, you're awesome in my book. ANYWAY, even though I am not one to shriek, the second mouse startled me so much that I let out a quick shriek. I immediately covered my mouth, surprised that sound managed to escape. Joey called out from the bedroom. I explained that alongside Hector, we now had Gladys. That's right, I named her Gladys.
So that is my life's current situation. I am trying to handle living with mice - as in, I want to catch these mice and free them, but I think we may need to call an exterminator.
After what seemed like a never-ending blast of winter, spring finally peaked her warm, welcoming head out from under the snow this weekend. The sun shone through, melting away layers of snow and ice.
Joey and I spent a good portion of Saturday and Sunday strolling down random streets. Lila frolicked in the fields. Life was good.
Cut to Monday morning. After begrudingly readying myself for work, I leashed Lila. We stepped outside. The wind blew its sharp icy breath and in the distance I saw ....
THE WEATHERGEESE! (If you have no idea what weathergeese are, read this first.)
"WHAT?" I asked, shouting at no one in particular. "You aren't supposed to be back." I said to the geese, oblivious to the glances of other work-bound neighbors.
"No, no, no. It's supposed to be spring. Why are you back?" If I was my neighbor, I would avoid me. They probably all think, "There's that crazy girl talking to the geese."
Lila glanced at the geese, confused as to why I sounded upset. As we closed in on the geese, two soldier geese cried the alarm.
Lila LIKED the honks. She ran towards the geese with full speed. The soldier geese honked faster, wings flapping. Halfway towards the geese, Lila stopped dead in her tracks and went to the bathroom instead.
After she finished, she walked away from both the geese and myself as if she were too cool for school.
A soldier goose eyed Lila. When she was finally a safe distance away, he let out a honk which I interpreted as, "What just happened?"
I looked at the goose and shrugged. I too couldn't explain Lila's bizarre actions.
After leashing Lila and returning her to the apartment, I went off to work.
I returned from work expecting to see the field filled with geese, preparing for a winter storm.
Instead, I saw this -
This is a picture of approximately 25 ROBINS. To the right of this was another group of an additional 25 robins for a grand total of 50 ROBINS!
Um, what?
What happened to my weather geese? Were these the new spring weather robins?
Was there an EPIC BATTLE between geese and robins? The victor laying claim to the next months' weather? OR have my weathergeese turned INTO springweatherrobins?
Ok, realistically, I know the geese haven't morphed into these tiny, red-breasted birds. Yet still, a small, teeny tiny, eensy, weensy part of me thinks, "what if the very soldier goose I saw this morning is still on the field, tiny and less intimidating?"
No one is scared of a robin.
Am I now left to predict weather solely on the migratory pattern of birds?
Tuesday morning, I planned to greet my springweatherrobins, but instead laid eyes on an empty field. No geese, no robins.
"Oh well," I thought to myself. "They must have moved on."
Tuesday afternoon after returning from work, I made my way to the apartment. In the distance, I heard a noise. I glanced towards the fields on to be greeted by THE WEATHERGEESE!
I bet you thought they were gone. NOPE! Apparently, the robins and geese are sharing custody of the fields. Neither of them likes the other, so they schedule their field time accordingly. Although, rather than the usual 50 weathergeese, only 10 showed up. So maybe they knew a small snow was on it's way.
As I made my way inside, I called out to the weathergeese, "I DON'T KNOW WHAT YOU WANT FROM ME! What am I supposed to do? IS THIS A SIGN? WHAT DO YOU - Oh hey RayRay - I waved at him- I DON'T KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS!" In case you were wondering, RayRay is my neighbor. He already knows I am crazy so I don't think he was even slightly phased by my outcry. I really don't know. Are they trying to send me a message? Am I supposed to interpret their presence as something more than just the weather? I don't know. Will I ever see the robins again? I don't know. What is it about my neighborhood that makes it THE place to be if you're a bird? I DON'T KNOW!
Thank goodness I took pictures. Each time I asked Joey if he saw the geese or robins on the field, he said he didn't know what I was talking about - there wasn't anything on the field. I AM NOT THIS CRAZY!
I think the weathergeese are trying to hold out with the last of winter while the weatherrobins are cheering on spring. If this is the case, GO SPRINGWEATHERROBINS! Weathergeese, I love you, but I am finished with this snow.
Point of the Story: Bring on the sunshine! I am ready for spring. Let's go SPRINGWEATHERROBINS! ....And hey to RayRay.
As a child, a handful of idioms and phrases confused me. Eventually I figured out my mistakes and realized I had been saying these phrases wrong for my entire childhood. Although, I will admit, embarrassingly, that figuring out the mistakes took years - many, many years. Here are my top phrase mistakes:
1. The Phrase: Giving someone an ultimatum
Meaning: According to Google, it's giving someone a final demand, which if not followed will result in the break down of issues.
What I Heard: Giving someone an OLD TOMATO
Gross.
My Interpretation: Here's the scenario: you're starving. That is, dying from hunger, which is the very definition of starving. I hand you an old tomato, an old moldy tomato, covered in flies. Now you have two choices:
Option 1 - Eat the tomato, get sick from the mold, contract a food-born illness and die.
Option 2 - Starve to death. Both ways you die. You are left with a really tough decision that you don't want to make.
I am proud of my six year old self for coming up with that reasoning. It's logical and actually resembles the real meaning.
I like my saying much better, so when it is appropriate to say "give someone an ultimatum" I say, "well I guess you have to give them an -" I pause every time for a matter of seconds. In these seconds, an internal battle wages in my head. Should I use the proper term or my term? If I use my term, I will have to explain it. BUT I like my term better. The solution? I mumble "old tomato" which sounds just like ultimatum. Since the person is expecting to hear the word "ultimatum", they assume that is what I said. Even though, I know and know you know that I am in fact suggesting they hand the person an old, rotten, moldy, fly-covered tomato.
I think the phrase SHOULD BE "give someone an old tomato." It makes sense.
2. The Phrase: Taking someone for granted
Meaning: Not appreciating someone What I Heard: Taking someone for GRANITE (a type of rock)
That's granite. It's clearly NOT a person.
My Interpretation: This one never made sense to me. I spent the first 14 years of my life befuddled by this phrase. I KNEW granite was a type of rock. What type of people were made out of rocks? Why would I ever think someone was a rock?
I remember my dad using this phrase when my sisters and I were acting selfishly, not appreciating my mom. My dad would tell announce, "Stop taking your mother for granted." Of course, I heard, "Stop taking your mother for granite."
From my dad's tone, I always knew this was a bad thing. But WHY?
10 Year Old Me Thoughts: I'm NOT taking mom for granite. Mom isn't made of granite. I know that. Why would I even think she was made of rocks? I'm not taking her to the store to buy granite. Why does Dad think I am confused about what Mom is made out of? That is a silly phrase.
Due to the years of confusion, whenever I do say "take something for granted" I emphasize the "T" sound followed by the "-ED" sound I make it VERY CLEAR for all similarly confused children that the word is "granted" not "granite."
You're welcome tiny and confused children.
3. The Phrase: Might as well Meaning: There isn't any reason for you not do to it What I Heard: MIDAS well (as in King Midas)
My Interpretation: This one also made zero sense to me. The only MIDAS I knew was King Midas. I also knew the story of King Midas.
Actually NO, I think I remember the story, but I always seem to combine it with parts of Aladdin, leading to my own, incorrect version of King Midas. Without further ado, MY VERSION of King Midas:
There once was a King named Midas. He lived somewhere with waterfalls and rocks and tropical leaves. There isn't a reason for his residency in the stone temple in the Amazon. It's just whenever I think of King Midas, this setting comes to mind.
One day King Midas was walking in his tropical land. He came across a MAGIC LAMP. Clearly, this is the part where I mix up the story with Aladdin.
The King rubbed the magic lamp. Magic, sparkling, colorful smoke surrounded the King. From the smoke emerged a genie. The genie said, "you have rubbed the magic lamp, For that I grant you 3 wishes" Because that is the amount of wishes genies give to people. I'm not sure why, but it's always 3.
The King thought and made a wish. It doesn't matter what he wished for. It's only the third wish the matters. The king then made another wish. Again, no one cares what he wished for because that's wish number 2. For his FINAL wish, King Midas said, "I wish everything I touched turned to gold because I love GOLD!"
OH! I forgot to tell you. King Midas was a greedy king. Being greedy is bad, so he was also a bad king. And he had a son. I am not the best at retelling classic stories.
The genie granted the King's wish. The King's hands lit up as the magic entered through his finger tips. Once his hands ceased illuminating, he ran over to a rock, maybe it was made of granite, and touched it. Instantly, the rock turned to shimmering gold!
"THIS IS AMAZING!" shouted the King as he ran around touching random tropical items, like banana leaves. I like banana leaves.
The genie and his magic lamp disappeared. The King ran back to his castle, again, I imagine a stone temple-esque thing, waving his hands in the air, ecstatic with his new ability.
For some reason, he passed a wooden swing-set. "I will turn you to gold" shouted the King in glee. He placed a single finger on the seat of the swing-set. The spot where his finger touched turned gold instantly. The gold spread through the set overtaking the wood until standing before King Midas was a solid gold swing-set. I also imagine cool sound effects happening whenever he turns stuff to gold.
The King, thrilled that his power remained, rushed back to the castle.
When he arrived, the King ordered everyone to the Grand Hall for a demonstration. Sevants, cooks, guards, and the entire castle staff crowded around the King's royal throne.
"Watch what happens when I sit on my throne" he announced, trying to restrain the excitement in his voice.
The King slowly lowered himself into his throne. As soon as he made contact, the throne, like the swing-set and banana leaf, turned to solid gold.
Gasps and came from the crowd. The King laughed as a roar of thunderous applause filled the Grand Hall. The King spent the rest of the day turning trinkets into gold much to the delight of his audience.
The King demanded a feast to celebrate his new power. Cooks and servants worked feverishly to create such a feast. The servants filled Grand Hall with tables covered by the finest linens in the land, gold platters covered with exotic fruits, juicy roasts, and sweet breads to the King's liking.
Once everything was in place, the King walked the Hall, examining the delicacies set before him. "Very good," he said as he eyed the roast. Next to the roast sat a strand of green grapes. The King felt his stomach rumble. To ease the pain, the King plucked a green grape, tossed it in the air, with the intention of catching it in his mouth.
Unfortunately, the King forgot his ability turned EVERYTHING he touched to gold. He had not seen the grape morph into a solid gold sphere. For if he had, perhaps he wouldn't have tried to swallow it.
The solid gold grape flew in the air. The King positioned himself directly under it, mouth wide open. By the time the King realized the grape was no longer edible, it was too late. The sphere lodged itself in his throat. He choked on it and died.
THE END Again, that's not how the actual story ended, but that's how I completed mine.
SO when people something along the lines of, "MIDAS well go to the grocery store" I reasoned that they were explaining that King Midas would go to the grocery store, therefore we should go to the grocery store because we will get gold. I NEVER was given gold, so I determined that phrase to be a lie.
I really want a bunch of solid gold bars to stack into a pyramid.
And FINALLY,
The Star Spangled Banner - alright, this one is a bit different. I know every word of the Star Spangled Banner, thank you years of chorus. However, growing up in Maryland, I learned that the "OH!" portion of the song was to be screamed at the top of your lungs.
Now, I was under the impression that EVERYONE in the U.S. screamed the "OH!" as some sort of "Hooray, we've made it this far through the song. We're almost finished with this awkward part of our lives!"
That, however, is not the case. As a freshman in college, I headed to Virginia Tech's Lane Stadium to witness my first college football game. Before the game, the Corp of Cadets marched on the field, proudly displaying the U.S. flag. Everyone in the stadium rose as we sang along to the Star Spangled Banner.
And by sang along, I mean murmured because that is what you do when singing the national anthem. We murmur it under our breaths, rocking back and forth in anticipation for the game.
We reached "...gave proof through the night, that our flag was still there."
"OH!!!!!" I screamed at the top of my lungs. As I did, dozens of people turned to look at me in disgust.
It was only then that I realized I was the only one in the section that had screamed. Wait. Why was I the only one to scream?
Seeing my puzzled expression, an acquaintance took me aside to explain that in Maryland, we scream "O" because of the Orioles, our baseball team. Since our team is nicknamed "The O's" we call out "O" in their support. Additionally, people NOT from Maryland think it is really RUDE to do during the Star Spangled Banner.
What the people NOT from Maryland don't know is that ANY time the Star Spangled Banner is sung in any form in Maryland, we shout "OH!"
Singing it in school? Shout "OH!" Singing it at a sports game? Shout "OH!" Practicing it in chorus? Shout "OH!"
Those are the only times you sing it. So it makes sense that I assumed it was always to be shouted. No one ever sat me down as a child and explained differently. Therefore, I am here for you, CHILDREN OF MARYLAND to let you know, when singing the Star Spangled Banner in another state, do NOT shout "OH!" It's rude.
The Oriole's O
CHILDREN OF MARYLAND, reserve the "OH!" for Orioles' baseball games and Ravens' football games as I do. But don't fret, because you better believe that when I do have the chance to shout "OH", I do so at the top of my lungs.
Point of the Story: Sayings are much more fun when you hear them wrong. Plus, "giving someone an old tomato" is too good. It SHOULD be a saying.
The weatherpeople have a hard job. They have to deal with the fact that when they correctly predict the weather, no one gives them any credit. Yet, when they get it wrong, everyone blames them. That seems like a LOT of pressure.
I appreciate the weatherpeople. HOWEVER, I have found a more accurate weather source. A source that has informed me of EVERY snow storm we've had this winter season. What is this magical source that in my experience has correctly predicted 100% of the snowstorms that have occurred this winter season?
A flock of geese.
That's right. A random flock, maybe flocks because it is a lot of geese, that always show up a day or two before the storm. So far that geese are 4 for 4 for weather predictions. 100%? Perfection. That's as accurate as you can get.
**UPDATE: The geese are now FIVE FOR FIVE!!! Amazing! From now on, the minute the geese show up, I am going to the grocery store to stock up for a storm.
Lila, however, is completely uninterested in geese UNTIL she absentmindedly wanders close to them. When she gets too close, one of the soldier geese, who stands guard, flaps his wings and honks, signaling to other soldier geese that danger is lurking nearby. If the predator (Lila) gets too close, the soldier geese alert all of the grazing geese with repetitive HONK HONK HOOONNNNNKK. The flock then shifts their position. If the predator (Lila) follows, the geese take off, safe in flight.
For Lila, the taking off part is the MOST FUN EVER! She loves to chase the geese as they slowly rise from the ground. However, Lila is always disappointed when they fly away. She chases them, seeming to yell, "WAIT, come back! I want to play! Let me SMELL YOU!"
However, if the geese are accompanied by goslings, unable to fly, then it's another story. Because instead of flying away, the soldier goose prepares for battle.
Get too close to goslings and Momma Goose temporarily turns into a cat, HISSING at you. That's right, even though these flying creatures have beaks, geese possess the ability to hiss.
The first time I heard a goose hiss, I was 12 years old. My school took us to a pond in the woods to measure the levels of stuff in the pond. For the life of me, I can't remember what we were measuring.
Of course, the teacher wouldn't let the students collect the water needed for the measurements because a student could fall into the pond and drown. Who knew 13 years later, I would have rescued a total of 3 people from drowning? One I rescued was a sixty year old man in white water rapids. That was a good save. I will tell that story another day.
Being that we weren't allowed to collect the water, all the 12 year old students stood around, bored, looking for more interesting things to do. Two boys quickly found that thing. They spotted a nest on the ground. In it were eggs. The boys snuck away from the rest of us in order to investigate the nest. Being a good student, I stayed with the group, but positioned myself so that I could still see the boys. The two rushed over to the nest to examine the eggs, but as they reached a distance of 10 feet away from the nest out of NOWHERE a goose CHARGED towards them, wings flailing, beak open, tongue out, HISSING - ready to attack.
I love animals. I love geese. I love their honk because it makes me laugh. It's all "Hhhhhhonnnnnnnnnk." But in that moment, nothing seemed as terrifying as this goose. Imagine a miniature charging rhinoceros, but instead of a horn, it has a beak, open, tongue out, hissing like a snake - that is the reality of an angry goose. These two humans were threatening her babies and that was unacceptable.
The boys went from sneaky, pranksters to scared babies in a matter of seconds. One let out a high pitch shriek causing the rest of my class to turn. The other boy repeatedly apologized to the goose. "Look, we're sorry" he stuttered, "we aren't going to get any closer, we just wanted to see the eggs, but..." HISS HISS said the angry goose. "Ok, we'll just go now" stammered the boy. With that, he stepped backwards slowly. As he did, the goose flomped forward, chest puffed out, wings out, hiss steady.
Under normal circumstances, geese waddle, penguins waddle, ducks waddle, but when stressed or angry, the funny little waddle morphs into an angry, quick paced walk that I can call THE FLOMP. "Flomp" is the sound their little webbed feet make as they rush towards their agressor in a final stand to protect everything they hold dear. When flomping, the animal covers much more land.
Oh my gosh! I have created a new word. Not only that, but I gave a definition. I used it in a sentence. I provide the past tense and gerund of the word. Someone alert Webster, Urban, or Oxford Dictionary they need to have this word added ASAP. Years from now, my great-great-great granchild will hold a picture of me up to a bunch of seated children and say, "This is your great-great-great-great grandmother, Rachel. She invented the word FLOMP." Too cool.
The boys backed away with hands up, leaning forward, almost bowing to the goose to show that they didn't mean any disrespect. Once they were far enough away from the nest, the goose reverted back to goose form and went to check on her eggs.
They boys left unscathed, but I am positive that incident added angry goose to the list of their fears. It sure added goose to my list of animals not to mess with.
Hmm, that was a very anti-climatic story. Sorry for the disappointment.
The weather-geese showed up on Saturday morning. I am guessing they are flying back from Florida or wherever they went for the winter. However, since they have stopped over, I can only assume a storm is imminent.
As Lila and I walked on Sunday morning, I approached the geese for a photo op. Since the last time the geese arrived, Lila chased them off, I kept us far enough away that the geese felt Lila was a non-issue. Unfortunately, this made for a poor photo of them.
My neighbors are geese, FIFTY OF THEM! They are rather quiet. Perhaps, geese are less honktastic when on the ground. Their presence makes me smile and go to the grocery store to stock up for the upcoming storm.
So, when a big storm is threatening to touch down and you're not sure whether to believe the forecasts, drop me an email and I'll go check with my weathergeese.
Point of the Story: The weather-geese know what's up.
The SAT, the most important test a high schooler will take. Do poorly on the SAT and you can kiss your dream college goodbye. You can take the SAT a total of three times. CollegeBoard, the distributor of the SAT, takes your best scores and sends them to your choice of colleges.
In total, I took the SAT 3.25 times. That's right. 3 and one quarter times.
It was a cool Saturday morning. After having a filling breakfast of oatmeal, I LOVE OATMEAL, I drove my mom and myself to my high school. Having only my learner's permit, my mom accompanied me in the passenger's seat to ensure that in the 0.7 miles between my house and my high school, I didn't crash the minivan.
I arrived at my high school, crash-free, parked the car, hugged my mom goodbye, and headed inside.
After checking in, confirming IDs, and being informed of our assigned location, I walked to the cafeteria where we were informed to wait until everyone had completed the check-in process. In the cafeteria, students stood around awkwardly, attempting to make small talk, but too stressed about the impending test to have full conversations.
We were tired at 7:30 in the morning, bored with standing around, and nervous with the upcoming test. I just wanted to get this stupid thing over. I remember thinking something nearly identical to that.
All conversation came to a screeching halt as a thundering BOOM sounded. Immediately the BLAAARRRRGH of the fire alarms filled the school with it's obnoxious shrieking.
Combined with the blinding strobe light, I find fire alarms to be one of the most annoying life saving devices. There are plenty of life saving devices that forgo the near the shattering of ear drums and blinding of eyes. For example, if you're drowning, a rescue tube is pretty wonderful and quiet.
And yes, I understand it is completely necessary to make the shrill of the alarm as ridiculously loud as it is to help those hard of hearing and the seizure the lights go through are to alert the deaf to the potential fire, but that doesn't mean I have to like it.
We all looked around incredulously. A fire drill? Now? No. We weren't going out. We needed to start the SAT. However, a proctor came rushing into the cafeteria shouted that we needed to evacuate. When someone come running in a panic and tells you to get out, you get out. You don't question them, just do it. That drives me crazy.
Making my way to the teachers parking lot, I checked the time. I would check the time frequently throughout our story.
7:45 - 7:50 am: For the first 5 minutes, the crowd of students remained calm, realizing that yes, sometimes fire alarms go off at the most inconvenient times.
7:50 am: A fire truck, lights flashing, sirens wailing, flew down the road, headed to our school. Those at the school looked around at one another nervously. I heard whispers, "could there really be a fire?" Anything is possible, so yes, a fire is always a possibility. It's just highly unlikely. It wasn't as if it were a normal school day and a student accidentally mixed two chemicals causing the science wing to ignite in flames. The only ones at the school were the janitors, SAT proctors, front office staff, lawn maintenance, and SAT takers.
7:50 - 7:55 am: Once they pulled around to the front of the school, firefighters leapt from the atop their giant red truck. Six of them darted into the building, ready to save lives.
7:55 - 8:04 am No word from the firefighters. We anxiously waited for at least one of them to run out of the building, covered in soot, out of breath from fighting a raging fire to give us some kind of update.
8:05 am: A firefighter emerged, spotless and relaxed. "Is everything okay?" someone from the crowd asked. He nodded, walked back to the truck to get a walky-talky. More firefighters causally exited the building. They formed a huddle, chatting, joking, as if still hanging out at the fire station.
8:05 - 8:10 am: After going a few minutes without any explanation of the current situation from any adult, people started getting angry. I overheard a lot of angry students, muttering expletives. I sympathized. Although, not angry, I too felt a twang of frustration.
When you play sports, you get into this zone right before the game. You mentally prepare yourself to go out there and give 100%. You are ready for the game to start. It's the same way with the SATs. You are mentally prepped, accepting that yes, you do have to take this test today. So when it is rudely interrupted by BLAAAARRRRGGGHH, you are not happy.
8:10 - 8:15 am: At this point, groups of students made the executive decision that taking the SAT on this specific day wasn't worth all of the drama.
Without letting anyone, the proctors, the front office staff, the head SAT leader, know, handfuls of students filed into cars. Those without cars or without friends with cars, walked over the bridge, all destined for home. I longed to be one of them, free from this circus.
8:15 am: The firefighters loaded back into their enormous truck and drove back to the fire house.
With the amount of people a firetruck holds and the different locations to sit in the truck, a fire truck reminds me of a clown car. With a firetruck, people pop out of all different places. You'll have 6 come out of the front of the truck, no sweat, then 2 show up from the back, another guy is hanging on somewhere on the middle, and look up, what's that? There's a firefighter on top of the truck! It's a game to find all of the firefighters.
8:15 - 8:25 am: With the first rebellious group completely out of sight, more and more of us yearned for the same freedom. Countless inner monologues played out throughout the waves of students. In our minds, we argued without ourselves,
I'm leaving. No, I'm not. I can't. I'm going to. I'm not even in the right state of thought to take the SAT. But, I already checked in. What will happen if I just go? Won't they worry about my disappearance? Can I get my money back? Would they count this as scoring a 0 on the SAT? Has anyone ever scored a 0? Don't you get 50 points just for filling out your name correctly? No, I'm just going to wait a few more minutes.
Once we argued internally, we argued with one another out loud. One student played the role of rational, calm, level-headed friend intent on staying to complete the SATs, while the other, frustrated, antsy, ready to throw it to the wind, and risk a possible 0 on the SATs.
After the conversation concluded, roles reversed and again arguments broke out all over the parking lot.
For my friend Bing, I first took the overwhelmed role as he calmly explained why we needed to stay. A few minutes later, Bing said,
"You're right, we should just go."
I argued that we couldn't leave yet. And we made a deal to stay for another 5 minutes. Once the 5 minutes elapsed, we would leave the school and never look back - until Monday, when we had to go to school again.
8:20 am: At least 30% of the students once outside, waiting for their chance to demonstrate their overall knowledge or waiting for the chance to get the SAT over with, had left. I couldn't really blame them. Here we stood, in the same spot for 45 minutes, on an early Saturday morning without the slightest clue as to what we were supposed to do.
Rumors swirled that whoever was in charge was going to cancel today's SAT and reschedule it for another week. That was it. I was through waiting. I gathered the courage to part from the crowd, slowly, I inched towards the path home, but as I made my daring, although slow get-away, I heard the SAT proctor announce,
Alright, we are going back inside to take the test.
Choruses of confused, frustrated students called out,
What? What had happened? Where were the details? Remember the firetruck? Was it warranted? Were we really still going to take the SAT?
I turned back towards the building, my voice joining the concerned students. At this point, it was useless to try and walk home. Some of the proctors were teachers at the school, surely if I walked away, one of them would come get me and bring me back to the test. It was pointless to leave, besides I wanted to know what happened.
Those proctors that weren't our school teachers joined in with the students' displeasure. Their heavy gloom-filled steps thudded against the ground in protest. They too yearned for freedom on this sunny Saturday morning.
We filed back into the school, headed towards the appropriate classroom.
The proctor checked our IDs again as we entered the classroom. I sat towards the front of the room. As more students entered, one question was on everyone's lips, "What happened?"
Finally, one student sauntered into the room with a smug grin on his face. "You're not going to believe what happened," he remarked offhandedly to no one in particular.
The other students and I took the bait immediately, "What happened? Do you know? Who told you?" Even the proctor seemed interested.
The student announced,
Y'know how there are men outside on the riding lawn mowers? One of the them was driving it back into the storage room, lost control, and instead DROVE A LAWN MOWERSIDE OF THE BUILDING! The lawn mower CAUGHT FIRE, EXPLODED, causing the fire.
No, there was no possible way that could be even remotely true. I stared incredulously at the boy. A girl entered the room to catch the tail end of the story. She too had heard the tale from others, and said,
I know, it's crazy right? Who drives into a building?
I've learned that just because two people say something is true, it isn't necessarily true. You wait for someone in charge to confirm the details or you go find the details out yourself.
Students buzzed left and right about the prospect of an exploding lawn mower. After a few tries, the proctor managed to settle the classroom. She handed out the first part of the SAT which required us to fill in our name, test date, home address, birth date, high school, high school address, exact time of birth, favorite color, dream getaway. Ok, they don't ask for the last three things, but they do ask for A LOT of information.
Even as I filled in my life details, my mind focused on the lawn mower. I had so many unanswered questions:
What happened to the person driving the lawn mower?
Who put out the fire? The firefighters didn't. I stood near the truck with the giant hose the entire time. They never used it.
We have a STORAGE ROOM for LAWN MOWERS? We don't even have enough classrooms. We have trailers. How do we have a lawn mower storage room?
I guess by SO MANY unanswered questions what I really meant was that I had 3 unanswered questions. Apparently, 3 questions is my definition of SO MANY questions.
Finally, it was time to take the SAT. I looked at the clock which read 9:00 am. We were supposed to start the test at 8:30 am. This exploding lawn mower was cutting into my Saturday.
We started the SAT with the essay section. I opened the booklet which asked something about Abraham Lincoln being the best leader of the U.S.
My mind raced,combining thoughts of explosions, lawn mowers, Abraham Lincoln, his hat resulting in one overwhelming thought of Abraham Lincoln, dressed up, top hat and all, riding a lawn mower into the side of the building causing a massive explosion. The headlines would read: ABE LINCOLN MASSIVE LAWN MOWER EXPLOSION! SAT POSTPONED!
After minutes of attempting to focus myself, I realized there was no way I could write a decent essay. All I wanted was to somehow link my essay to the bizarre occurrence of earlier in the morning. Unfortunately, no matter how hard I tried, I didn't see linking our former president with a riding lawn mower as stellar SAT essay material.
I peered around the classroom to see students writing fervently. I motioned to the proctor. She walked over, leaning over my desk. I quietly explained that I wanted to cancel my scores as I couldn't concentrate. She nodded her head, sympathetic to my struggle, she whispered to me, "They should have canceled this. Do you know where the guidance counselor's office is? That's where you need to go to cancel your scores."
Being the SATs were held in my school, I knew the location of the guidance counselors. I walked down the empty hallway and entered the office. I smiled as I recognized the guidance counselor.
"I'm here to cancel my scores!" I announced.
"Let me guess, with everything that happened this morning, you can't focus enough to take the test, right?" she asked.
"Exactly."
"I knew I should have sent everyone home and postponed the test" she replied, shaking her head in frustration.
"Yes, that would have been nice" I replied matter-of-factly. "Also, what happened to the man driving the lawn mower? Is he alright?"
"I have no idea" she responded. "Alright, I will cancel your scores. You can go home."
"Thank you." I left and walked home, contemplating the events of earlier in the morning.
Point of the Story: To this day, I have NO IDEA what happened to the man DRIVING the lawn mower. I hope he was alright. Some people say they saw him running away as not to get in trouble. I'm not sure if that's true, but if it is, where did he go?
*Note: The reason for this post is not to garner your pity of my being sick. We all get sick at one point or another. I am writing this post because I like to share what is going in my life. Currently, the main thing going on in my life is the flu, so I thought I'd share my experience with it. Don't worry, I don't describe anything grotesque.
If you came to see me late in the afternoon on Friday during Reading Day, you may have noticed I wasn't my usual chipper self. Perhaps, you thought I seemed a bit out of it. You were right. Let's go back a day to start from the beginning.
THURSDAY
Thursday started with a cough. The cough, I could handle. I was happy that even though I had a cough, my throat wasn't super sore. Awesome!
Thursday evening was spent hacking out my lungs. I decided to climb into bed early, around 8:30 pm as I felt slightly under the weather. I thought to myself, "no big deal, I'll go to sleep early and feel better in the morning." It's amazing how frequently I am wrong. I woke up multiple times Thursday night, sitting straight up in bed, attempting to catch my breath after bouts of dry, wheezy coughs. I hate those coughs. They are the ones where you struggle breathe and need to take a deep breath before coughing.
FRIDAY
Late Thursday night's coughs proceeded seamlessly into early Friday morning coughs. Waking up for work on Friday, I felt as though I barely slept. This makes sense since the most restorative sleep is deep sleep. Achieving deep sleep occurs after your body cycles through four stages of sleep. The fourth stage is the most restorative stage, but can only be achieved after your body completes the first three stages. Unfortunately, every time you wake up, your body starts the sleep cycle over again at Stage 1.
In the beginning of Reading Day, I answered student questions left and right, only interrupted by my cough. But around 10:30 am, more symptoms arose. My neck stiffened, my back throbbed, and why was the room spinning? This illness started to win its battle against my body and my symptoms slowly overpowered me. If I had been thinking clearly, I would have taken some medicine and felt much better, but no, I continued on with the day.
By 11:30 am, when someone would ask a question, I would just look at them with wide eyes, not saying a word. I didn't do this to be funny. I actually though I was answering them. It would take me a minute or two to realize that the entire time I thought I had been flawlessly answering their question, I had really been awkwardly staring at them in total silence. When I did finally speak, my words stumbled over one another. My brain tried to process their question, but instead, my sole thoughts repeated in my mind, "You don't feel so good. You need to lie down. Are you sick? Why am you referring to yourself in the second person? Who does that? Maybe you should go home."
Around 12:30 pm, when asked a question, rather than awkwardly stare, I managed to smile and nod my head, affirmatively. Unfortunately, most of the questions posed required more than a simple nod of the head as very few of the questions were 'yes' or 'no' questions.
When a student asked, "Why is ln (13) + (0.04t)ln (e)? Why wouldn't it be (0.04t)ln(13e)?" I looked at them with wide eyes, smiled, and slowly nodded my head up and down. As you can imagine, this led to even more confusion. Also, the ln (13) + (0.04t)ln (e)is correct. Remember, logarithms are just the inverse of exponents and therefore maintain the same properties. Also, if you're still confused, email me, I have a great proof for it.
Rather than illustrate the properties of natural logarithms - that when you have two values being multiplied and you then their log, you result in the two multiplied values becoming logs of the same base that are added together or show them an exquisite and straightforward proof - I could only muster, "Look at your notes!"
Talk about frustrating.
My poor students, overtaxed with preparing for exams, came to me for clarification. Yet, in my state, I managed to stare at them awkwardly and cough in their faces. No, not actually cough in their faces, that's rude and disgusting. When you cough, you pull a Dracula.
That is the Dracula. It prevents germs from flying across the room when you sneeze or cough. It's the polite thing to do. It's also adorable when small children do the Dracula.
Side Note: As a teacher, it is very important that my students and really everyone for that matter to always give credit where credit is due. Whenever I put a picture on my blog that I didn't draw, I link the picture back to its original website. This also helps avoid any copyright infringement. So if you click on this picture of Sir Sneeze-A-Lot, it will take you to Comic Company, a UK based website that makes comics.
The Dracula or Zombie Sneeze is crucial when working in germ hot spots like hospitals, senior care centers, grocery stores, retail stores, and, you guessed it, schools.
I have a lame immune system. My sister, Melissa who is at college, studying to become a nurse, believes my lame immune system is due a few things:
Teaching in a new school = new germs that my body needs to learn to defend against
Not getting enough vitamins - I now take gummy vitamins because when it comes down to it, I am a 5 year old and I love gummy candies.
Being born a month premature - I didn't get the opportunity to fully develop in the womb. I have a great story about being born premature, but I will save that for another time.
I convinced myself that my symptoms were physical manifestations of stress due to Reading Day, the day before the beginning of exams where students come and ask teachers questions. I reasoned the questions were just too much for me to handle. I convinced myself, an extended break from the questions would bring me back to normal. Wrong again. The questions were fine. In retrospect, I enjoyed Reading Day. I liked the change of pace and people popping by to see me. What I didn't like was my body's internal battle.
By late Friday afternoon, chills engulfed my body, I schleppedhome. When I made it home, I pulled out a thermometer and took my temperature. It read 100.3 F. A fever. As a kid, having a fever around 100 F wasn't the worst thing. It wasn't serious until your fever was above 101 F. As an adult, it's different. As an adult, you have a fever if your temperature is 99 F or higher. Side Note: I'm linking scholarly articles to back up any claims I make, so that you know what I've said is legit.
From there, things got worse.
I collasped into bed. My aches intensified, my fever climbed higher and higher, my cough dry and wheezy, my chills turned into a cold sweat.
Joey brought home sushi and noodles. My appetite shrunken, I ate a few pieces of tuna, it's not a good idea to eat raw fish when you're sick, but I still hadn't accepted I was in fact sick, and a small bowl of noodles.
NyQuil helped bring my temperature down to 99.5 F, a low grade fever. I couldn't sleep. Instead, I took a bath, the warmth of the water coaxed my alertness into submissions as I nearly fell asleep in the tub. Dangerous. I mustered all of my energy to climb out of the tub and back into bed.
That night, between 11:00 pm and 2:00 am, I woke up every 30 - 45 minutes drenched in a cold sweat. I tossed and turned, coughed, and shook. At times, when I couldn't sleep, I flailed my arm towards my nightstand, in an attempt reach for my phone, but moving hurt so much that I quickly gave up, and instead laid there silently in pain.
With all of these symptoms, I could no longer deny it; I was sick.
They say you know you have the flu when you think of death in two ways. At first, you think to yourself, "I feel like death." But then the second wave hits, it gets so bad that you think to yourself, "I'd rather be dead."
I remember the last time I had the flu, 5 years ago, my fever reached 102.3 F and stayed around 101 F for hours on end. Due to the ongoing fever and pain accompanied with the flu, I welcomed the concept of death. I remember thinking, "whatever happens after death has got to be better than what I feel right now." Fevers can really mess with your thought process.
For me, one of the worst parts is the delirium that accompanies lengthy fevers. I become confused, emotional, and scared of silly things. When I had the fever of 102.3 F, I remember crying to Joey because I was scared to go to sleep. He asked why and I couldn't give him an answer. The concept of being unconscious simply frightened me. Of course, the one thing my body REALLY needed was sleep and I was scared to sleep. Stupid body sending mixed messages.
For the majority of the time, I aim to think and act logically. When I'm sick, my dreams are as illogical as they come. On Friday night, I dreamt of many things including a bizarre episode in which Joey and I attended the Spanish College Superbowl Halftime Show, this is not a real thing.
Note that we didn't actually attend the Spanish College Superbowl in my dream, nope, we only went for the halftime show.
We stood in darkness, waiting for the band to arrive on stage. Then the lights shined towards two people casually walking to the stage. This was the band. They didn't sing at first. They instead talked about politics. Joey and I looked at one another in confusion. What type of halftime show was this? People around us did the slow awkward no-one-knows-what-is-going-on clap, while others booed.
Finally, the unknown two-man band realized "Oops, we aren't here to discuss politics, we're here to sing. Our bad." Unfortunately, they chose a song no one knew.
As they sang, a jumbo-tron behind them lit up to show a video of two more people. It was OPRAH and someone else who doesn't matter because OPRAH.
Oprah started singing. I didn't even know Oprah could sing. I so badly wanted Oprah to come out from behind the screen and sing live. She didn't. I remember feeling sad in the dream. After realizing Oprah wasn't going to show up, I decided that my life would be okay even if I missed this "epic" half time show. Instead, I searched for a bathroom.
I noticed the halls were empty. This was probably due to the College Superbowl being lame. This is the point when I learned that not only was this the College Superbowl Half Time Show, but the Spanish College Super Bowl Half Time Show.
As I looked for the bathroom, a green sign caught my eye. It declared "Lavatoria" which doesn't mean anything in Spanish or any other language for that matter. However, "Lavatorio" means sink, so I guess my feverish brain forgot that I know THREE different CORRECT ways to say "bathroom" in Spanish, and instead, decided to do it's best by taking the Spanish word for sink, and making it feminine by changing the "o" to an "a". However, since "sink" is a noun, you can't change the last letter. C'mon brain, you know your Spanish vocabulary rules better than that.
After I left the "lavatoria" and traversed the empty halls, KT Tunstall's song, "Black Horse and a Cherry Tree" blasted through the hallways. It's a great song, but it made absolutely no sense in my dream.
Great song - No idea why it played as I navigated my way back to my seat.
SATURDAY
My brain played every verse of the song as I dreamt of dancing down the empty hallways back to where Joey sat. I woke up at the end of the KT Tunstall song, drenched in a cold sweat, my body was on fire, darts of pain shot through my body. I rolled over to see the clock which said 3:27 am. I really didn't like life at 3:27 am.
I didn't know what to do with myself. Laying in bed proved useless, moving required more energy than I possessed. Something needed to change, the pain was too great. Resorting to taking another bath at 3:30 am to help alleviate the aches of my body, I applied all of my energy towards dragging my body out of bed and into the bath.
After my bath, I made my way back to bed, pet Lila on the head, and fell asleep.
At 8:00 am on Saturday morning, Lila greeted me by licking my hand. Normally, she let us sleep in on the weekends. I took my temperature. It read 101.1 F. My fever managed to survive and thrive through the night. It was time for more medicine. I took DayQuil, pet Lila, and drifted off to sleep.
I later awoke to Joey standing over me, his face filled with worry.
"Are you cold?" he asked, very concerned.
"No" I groaned.
"Your whole body is shaking though."
He was right. I had been convulsing in my sleep. I named it "The Shakes." The shakes continued as Joey held my feet in an attempt to get me to stop shaking. It didn't work. He tried holding my legs, but still I shook. He sat at the edge of the bed, trying to think of any way he could help. I closed my eyes, falling back asleep. I woke up a few hours later and happily, the shakes were gone.
Even with the DayQuil, my fever held strong at 100.2 F. It had been nearly 24 hours with this fever. This was too long. This fever needed to break. In my experience, I get one really, really bad fever during the flu. It's like one epic battle. The rest are smaller, less painful battles. I have other fevers during the flu, but none with as high of a temperature or for as long as the one epic fever. I needed this fever to hurry up and break so that I could start on the road to recovery.
At that point, I felt like I was in the early 1900s, imagine Downton Abbey time, sick in bed, with people looking over me, one whispering to the doctor, "Doctor, will she be alrightt?" And the doctor replying, "I'm not sure, she has to make it through tonight."
If you watch Downton Abbey, amazing show, I felt as if I was one of the unfortunate ones who fell ill with the Spanish Flu in Season 2.
If you've never seen the show, don't worry, I won't spoil it. I will instead give you a history lesson. The Spanish Flu, also known as La Grippe was a pandemic that killed 50 million people between 1918 and 1919. It was caused by the H1N1 strain that back in 2008 was called Swine Flu. Interestingly enough, the Spanish Flu was given the name because at the time, WWI was occurring and reporters in Germany, the US, Britain, and France didn't want people to lose morale, so they censored the number of illnesses and deaths in their respective countries. However, since Spain remained neutral during the war, reporters were free to give a more accurate count of those infected and those dead in Spain from the flu. This made it look as though the flu was hitting hardest in Spain. If you want to read more, click on the link and read the Wikipedia article on it. It is amazing how much we can learn about so many different topics just by clicking a button and reading. People ask me how I know so much about so many things. When I don't know something, I goog (it's catching on) it, I read a bunch of articles about it, and absorb all of the information. Also, look at how much you just learned. You're welcome.
Around noon, I woke to see Lila lying at my side. She wagged her tail and sprung off the bed, surprised by my awakening. She jumped back up and barked with glee. Her bark alerted Joey to my consciousness.
Joey came in to the bedroom and smiled. "Are you hungry?" he asked. I nodded. I hadn't eaten since anything substantial since early Friday evening. Joey brought me a small bowl of oatmeal. I ate it slowly; slowly as in eating a single spoonful proved a task demanding a minimum of unsuccessful five attempts before even the smallest amount made its way into my mouth. Normally, eating oatmeal provided no difficulty, but in my sickened state, I convinced myself that it would be easier to eat if I held my head sideways, with my ear on my shoulder.It didn't. If anything it made it harder as I tried to make the spoon reach my mouth, I frequently missed, the spoon hit my cheek, and globs of oatmeal hit the blanket, much to Lila's delight. Clearly, the fever messed with my logic and ability to do the most basic of tasks.
In such pain, I found myself unable to get up and use the bathroom. Instead, anytime I had to go to the bathroom, I convinced myself that I didn't really have to go and instead fell back asleep.
My fever finally broke at 4:30 pm. I emerged from the bedroom much to Joey's and Lila's pleasant surprise. This whole ordeal confused Lila like none other. She couldn't figure out why I was spending so much time in bed.
Saturday evening my mom stopped by with homemade Matzah Ball soup because she is the best mom ever! She also brought some groceries, like orange juice, oranges, bananas, cans of soup, really all the things you need when you're sick. Plus, she brought dinner for Joey and herself. Too wonderful! Joey and my mom spent the evening chatting while I slipped in and out of consciousness on the couch. I don't even know if they noticed when I was with it and wasn't with it. Sometimes I would join in on the conversation, but most of the time, I slipped into dreamland. Part of the time, I ate the soup.
The soup was amazing. My mom puts an entire onion in it, along with root vegetables, like squash, potatoes, parsnip, carrots, all the things that are good for you. I gratefully sipped it, the warm broth eased the pain in my chest and brought comfort to my achy body. The orange juice provided me with much needed vitamin C, even though on the list of top 10 Vitamin C rich food, oranges rank ninth. Kind of pathetic. Seriously though, the best remedy to any virus, cold, flu, etc. is a big bowl of matzah ball soup and a glass of orange juice. People say that matzah ball soup is Jewish penicillin. That's bad for me since I am severely allergic to penicillin, but so far, the matzah ball soup has proved helpful and has not once sent me into anaphylactic shock. As my mom left, she instructed me to bed. My complexion, still ghostly pale, indicated battles remaining. My fever and symptoms returned in the middle of the night. However, their severity diminished in comparison to the fever of the previous night and earlier in the day.
SUNDAY
At 4:35 am, I awoke with the shakes. My whole body trembled non-stop. I closed my eyes, thinking it would somehow cause my body to stop shaking. It didn't. I wrapped my blankets tightly around my body to no avail. The shakes remained.
Unable to devise another option, I headed to the bath. My sisters and I are all the same, whenever we were sick, we headed right to the Jacuzzi. Because the Jacuzzi was so big, the water could fill up to your neck, allowing the warmth to penetrate through your chest, and break up the mucus, alleviate aches and pains, and begin to feel better. Due to this, I always take a bath if I feel sick. The bath proved helpful the shakes ceased. At 4:55 am, I made my way back into bed. I fell asleep instantly, sleeping for hours.
At 11 am, I sat straight up, gasping for air as a coughing fit took over. Worried, Lila jumped on the bed and attempted to lick my face while I coughed. I pushed her to the side. She incorrectly interpreted this to mean we were playing a game. She bounced around the bed, wagging her tail, barking, in the hopes that I might chase her. Meanwhile, I struggled to fill my lungs with an adequate amount of air. Sometimes, she isn't the brightest.
I spent the majority of Sunday with a low grade fever. Around 3 pm, the fever dissipated leaving me fever free! This was very exciting.
It looked as though my round the clock taking of DayQuil/NyQuil, every Quil and any Quil helped. I even managed to walk Lila outside for 7 whole minutes. Of course, minute 7 proved one minute too much for my sick body and leading to non-stop coughing, followed by sleep.
Night time is always the worst, so why would Sunday night be any different? It's as if the germs retreat during the day, regroup, and plan their attack for the nighttime.
Sunday night was awful. The coughing, the return of the fever, and the aches and pains. I was looking forward to Monday morning, just to get a break from it.
MONDAY
That brings us to today. I woke up, took my gummy vitamins, took DayQuil, drank a glass of orange juice, and put the matzah ball soup on the stove. I am taking it easy today, mainly resting and revising my exam. Today is going to be a good day, regardless of what the flu has in store for me.
You hear that flu? I'm coming for you. I'm ready to take you on. You think you've won this war; well, you're wrong. I will not be another one of your victims. Did you know, according to the CDC between 3,000 and 49,000 people DIE from the flu each year? That is absolutely awful.
Now I am fully aware that I am not going to die from this. I'm not even going to be hospitalized or need to see the doctor. When I say I won't be a victim of the flu, I mean, it's over between us, flu. You are to evacuate from the temple that is my body. I've served you the eviction notice, but I'm not giving you 30 days to vacate the premises, you've got to go NOW.
And next year, I will be getting the flu shot before you get the chance infect me.
The worst part about this sickness was that Joey and I planned to go skiing and snowboarding on Sunday. We definitely didn't get to do that. Plus our friends invited us to Blue Moon Cafe, home of the famous Captain Crunch French Toast Waffles and delicious pancakes, I didn't get to go to that either. Now I really want pancakes.
However, it is important to see the good in everything. Although the flu has been awful, it could have been much worse. The symptoms could have hit hard during the beginning of the week, forcing me to miss school. Or Joey, who has the immune system of Superman, he rarely if ever gets sick, maybe the sniffles - occasionally, he is the Occasional Sniffles Man, could have fallen ill as well. Somehow he is still 100% flu free. I can only hope that when we have children, they inherit his immune system. Seriously. I am lucky with 20/20 vision and straight teeth which never required braces, but when it comes to a desirable immune system, I am truly lacking.
Finally, the best thing about being sick is how much you appreciate being healthy afterwards. Even though I describe my immune system as lame, it still performs an amazing job of keeping me healthy for the majority of the time. For that and for the health of those I love most, those around me, and the health of all people, I am appreciative and thankful.
We easily focus on the negative aspects of life, complaining, wishing for a change, when instead we should focus on the numerous good aspects and should work to spread that good everywhere we go.
Point of the Story: Be good to your body. Give it the rest it deserves, especially during times of sickness. You only get one body, treat it with the respect it deserves.
AND FINALLY -
To my girls, good luck on exams. You will rock this. I will be posting AGAIN tomorrow, Tuesday, January 21, to remind you that I believe in you. If you studied and prepared properly, I know you will ROCK your exams.
